|
Posted: 5/13/05
Recovery groups enable
churches to help people heal
An article in which our Former Pastor, John Pollard is interviewed
By George
Henson
Staff Writer
RICHARDSON—If
churches want to see new faces in their pews, they need to help
people heal from their hurts, habits and hang-ups, asserts
Pastor John Pollard of Richland Baptist Church in Richardson.
Pollard serves on
the national board of directors for Celebrate Recovery, a
Bible-based 12-step program to help people recover
from a myriad of
life issues. The program was developed by John Baker, a layman
at Saddleback Church in southern California,
and now is
one of the prongs of ministry promoted by Rick Warren’s
Purpose-Driven ministry. At Richland,
eight issue groups
meet. There are separate men’s and women’s
groups for both chemical dependency and codependency, as well as
women’s
groups for victims of abuse and for eating disorders. A
men’s group for sexual addictions also meets, and an
anger/violence
group is slated to begin this summer.
Most churches
begin with the groups for chemical addictions and codependency,
Pollard said. Each Friday night
at Richland,
people come for a dinner, a large-group meeting
with a reading of the 12 steps and the corresponding Bible verse
for each,
special music or guest speaker and a time of
testimony. The large group
then is dismissed to meet in issue-specific groups.
A fellowship time
for coffee and desserts follows.
Participants in
recovery groups meet a second night to work through the Bible
study workbooks in a discipleship class. The 12 steps of the
program are based on the Beatitudes found in Matthew 5. “This goes
against everything we’ve been doing in Baptist churches for the
last 30 years—we’ve been bringing everything to the lowest
common denominator, making it as easy as possible. If you love
these people, you’ve got to make them work. They have to invest
as much in their recovery as they have in their addiction,”
Pollard said. “The truth is, that’s the only way they are going
to get better.”
When Pollard
explained that the program required two nights at week for at
least two hours each time, the people in his church said that no
one would go for it; it was too much to ask. People in
recovery often have a different reaction, he said. “Two nights a
week—I can’t get by with only two nights a week.” The need for
healing can’t be overstated, Pollard said. “If every church
out there had Celebrate Recovery and everyone who needed it
came, we wouldn’t be able to handle them,” he said. “In Celebrate
Recovery, I’ve found a ministry that brings people to the
church, and they are knocking the doors down to get there.”
Pollard has
baptized more than 50 people who have come through the Celebrate
Recovery program. “This is the No.
1 evangelistic tool in our church,” he continued. “Over 80
percent of our new members are coming through Celebrate
Recovery.” The program is
not something just for the people outside the church, however.
“Eighty percent
of the people in our churches need Celebrate Recovery or
something like it to deal with their baggage,” Pollard said.
He first became
interested in small-group ministry in the early 1980s when he
was pastor in a church made up primarily of young couples. The
church launched a support group for women who had been sexually
abused as children. Fifteen women joined it. Armed with a
conviction that small-group ministries could be effective,
Pollard began looking for an umbrella-type program that could
address a variety of issues. He knew he had
found it when he attended a three-day training conference at
Saddleback Church.
“I told my church
the next Sunday, ‘I’ve just been to a remarkable conference, and
I’m getting ready to fill this church with every drunk, drug
addict and dysfunctional person I can find. If you are not
comfortable with that, that’s fine; the exits are clearly
marked,’” he said. And Pollard
acknowledges some “blessed subtractions” did opt to leave, but
22 people showed up for his first leadership meeting. Two
admitted to being alcoholics. The rest said they didn’t have a
problem but felt called to help others overcome theirs. “Within
two months, all of them had identified at least two issues they
needed to work on,” Pollard said. “They were in
denial, and would not admit to themselves there was a problem in
their lives until they thought there was hope of recovery.”
Richland, a
church of about 200 members, had 78 people present for the first
Friday night of its Celebrate Recovery meetings. Pollard cautions,
however, that Celebrate Recovery is not a quick fix. Some look
at the 12 steps and believe it will be a typical three-month
study, but eight to 12 months is a more realistic goal for
recovery, he said. Group leaders are
people who have gone through the program, he said. Pollard’s
Friday night job—“I make the coffee, because you can’t have
recovery without coffee,” he quipped. The Bible study
is the key to the recovery, he said. “Some say the
Bible says that God helps those who help themselves, but what
the Bible really says is that God helps those who admit they
have a problem and cry out to God for help,” Pollard said.
Getting that help
should come easiest at church, but too often that is not true,
he said. “The church
should be the one place where we can come and be honest about
our hurts, our habits and our hang-ups, but in reality, it’s the
last place anyone would do that,” he said. That needs to
change, he asserted. “There are two
kinds of churches: 12-step churches and 1-step churches. That
one step is accept Jesus Christ and all your problems will be
over. ... But the truth is that our churches are filled with
hurting people.”
The ministry is
not just a benefit to those who go through the program, but the
church as well. “It has filled my
church with people who have a celebration of grace, and they
have become the hardest workers in my church and leaders in
other ministries,” he said. He said some of his best Sunday
school teachers and youth workers have worked through the steps
of recovery. “They have experienced the pain of bad choices in
their lives.” This is a tool
many pastors have been looking for, he continued. Pollard said his
church has helped 35 other churches begin Celebrate Recovery
ministries and would be glad to help others. He can be contacted
at (972) 231-6400. “I don’t know too
many pastors who aren’t heartbroken about what they hear in
counseling sessions, but they don’t know what to do,” he said.
“Used to, they had to send these people out to someone secular,
and then you didn’t know what they would tell them. That’s not
the case anymore.” |